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By Mark Henderson

“Hey Mark! This is Olivia Mills. …Today I went on your website and ended up sitting for hours reading everything … I cried, smiled, and laughed. When tears came to my eyes, I knew this website you created was a strong thing. The story about “Amy” was uplifting, and terrifying at the same time. Those are very strong emotions. … Loved meeting you, and now BEING-PART of the website. … Your Pal — Olivia Mills March 26, 2019

Dance. Unable to hear the music, onlookers perceived those prefering to dance as having gone insane! Be unapologetically who you are!

Ask yourself, “Who am I following? Why?”

WARNING: Don’t compare your insides to other’s outsides. Got it?

Without uncertainty faith cannot exist, and yet faith in what or WHOM?

Are you offended by people choosing to talk past or down to others? We invite followers who like TALKING WITH. Religiosity causes some to desperately try to control their own destiny by talking AT.

What happened to America? Suicide is now a leading cause of death in the Millennial generation. Who answers the question: Why do bad things happen to good people?”

As we sojourn together seeking new pathways, let’s be like a tree and never stop growing. Agreed?

Life is not a destination. Life’s a journey. Yes?


1) Honor & Integrity

2) Develop People


3) Pursue Excellence

4) Be Profitable

Take a few minutes to reflect on moments in your past when fear paralyzed you, and yet you overcame! Do this with confident reassurance as authentic love guides every step of your path.

From our hearts to yours, we are so touched by conversations with those who love BEING-A-PART of our little endeavor. One thing our friend Mia Isabel Bayuga said was especially touching. She pointed out:

“Mark, you take incredible portraits … enjoying the joy expressed ... it’s less about what we say and more about what we do … connecting with people … doing life with them … you are doing exactly that … in the race of life being the checkpoint … being the water station … being the cheering section ... helping runners complete their race .. Let’s applaud you today for being brave !” — March 11, 2019

What’s truth?

Transparent vulnerable people earn our trust.

Irreligion in America: “[Irreligious] Americans … include atheists, agnostics or “nothing in particular”. According to Pew [survey] in 2017, 72% of [Irreligious] believe in God, a higher power, or spiritual force. In 2012, the [Irreligious] have diverse views: 68% believe in God, 12% are atheists, 17% are agnostics; in terms of self-identification of religiosity 18% consider themselves religious, 37% consider themselves as spiritual but not religious, and 42% consider themselves as neither spiritual nor religious…”

As SPIRITUAL-BEINGS we’ve discovered that all we truly control is our personal values, character, and attitudes.


INEFFABLE: “Too great or extreme to be expressed or described in words. — ‘the ineffable mysteries of the soul’”

How do we describe the fragrance of a rose? Ineffable.

How do we teach heart? Love? Ineffable.

Our space is your place to belong. We unconditionally invite you personally to be WHO-YOU-ARE!

In our culture we are impassioned by a deep desire to BELONG, to be ACCEPTED, and to be AFFIRMED — Brene Brown wrote, "A deep sense of love and belonging is an irreducible need of all people. We are biologically, cognitively, physically, and spiritually wired to love, to be loved, and to belong. When those needs are not met, we don't function as we were meant to. We break. We fall apart. We numb. We ache. We hurt others. We get sick.”

We invite you TO-LOVE, TO-BE-LOVED, and TO-FULLY-BELONG as long as you wholeheartedly embrace our three mandates as follows:



3) Be the CIRCLE

Where’s a circle’s beginning? End? If 7.5 billion here on planet earth circle up holding hands, who’s first? Last? Why do some condescendingly feel more equal than others? We are all unique individuals and diversity is whqt makes life so interesting. Agreed?